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\u539f\u6587\u5730\u5740\uff1a<\/b>Opinion | Should We Refrain From Gossip?<\/a><\/font>
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To the Editor:Re \u201cGossip: It\u2019s Fun, It\u2019s Natural, and These People Won\u2019t Do It,\u201d by Michal Leibowitz (Opinion guest essay, Aug. 31):Ms. Leibowitz assumes that the majority of \u201cgossip\u201d \u2014 talking about people who are not there \u2014 is negative. Certainly, curb or eliminate your need to endlessly complain about small grievances.However, taking away the opportunity for a friend to say that an issue with your partner is normal and will pass, or not normal and cause for concern, or that a colleague is taking advantage of younger employees and may need to be stopped, or passing along something amazing that happened to a friend and inspires you, would trap all of us in the locked room of our own brains, without windows, endlessly circulating our own stale thoughts.Talking about other people \u2014 problems, joys, sadnesses, successes \u2014 is how we understand ourselves, and when done thoughtfully, is empowering. Stories about other people have been the bedrock of society since people could communicate. They help us evolve, grow and thrive. No, we should not stop gossiping.Phoebe MillerwhiteClaremont, Calif.To the Editor:I absolutely love this essay because it speaks to me at a time when I\u2019m grappling with the true meaning of friendship.I\u2019ve found that gossip is a quick way to bond with new friends, whether they are male or female, but these connections don\u2019t stand the test of time. Gossip is fleeting anyway, much like a sugar high; it comes and goes just like that. To be honest, it has sometimes given me a temporary boost by making me feel better about myself, as if seeing others\u2019 flaws, struggles or even suffering somehow validates my own feelings.For years, I\u2019ve avoided refined sugar because of its harmful effects on health, and I\u2019ve come to see gossip in a similar way. Completely eliminating it will be challenging, but I\u2019m committed to significantly reducing my involvement.Florence Huang-I ChiangTaipei, TaiwanTo the Editor:Gossip is fun if not malicious. After all, I made a career of it.To me, the caveat is never betraying a trusted source. Since I was a Washington, D.C.-based nationally syndicated political gossip columnist for five decades beginning at Roll Call in 1969 and appearing on the air dishing regularly with Joan Rivers during the Clinton presidency, Michal Leibowitz\u2019s gossip story sparked my interest.I always felt the title \u201cgossip columnist\u201d implied negativity and\/or fluff, something \u201cless\u201d than a serious professional journalist. I preferred to describe my gig as chronicling social history. At the time it was difficult for women to find their bylines in the news section much less on the front page. Newspapers relegated us to the women\u2019s pages or lifestyle sections.But skewering the pretentious boldface name or telling the same story in an amusing, chatty style \u00e0 la Liz Smith, Cindy Adams or Diana McLellan (\u201cThe Ear\u201d) was not only more acceptable, but often our items were tips for larger stories rewritten for the front page with male bylines.In politics then, as now, much of what originates as \u201cgossip\u201d quickly escalates to \u201cgospel.\u201dKaren FeldWashingtonTo the Editor:Re \u201cI Hope My Campus Is Even More Political This Year,\u201d by Michael S. Roth, the president of Wesleyan University (Opinion guest essay, Sept. 3):Mr. Roth\u2019s prescription for providing a safe space for the expression of political viewpoints on campus is nothing if not admirable, and might even work at a small liberal arts school like Wesleyan where civil discussions may be possible. But given the current environment and what we\u2019ve witnessed happening on many of the larger campuses across the country, his approach seems simplistic and detached from reality.The protesters at these institutions making \u201ctheir voices heard\u201d haven\u2019t just built peaceful encampments or called for divestment. They have engaged in tactics of harassment and intimidation that have included attacking Jewish students, barring students from entering campus buildings and threatening anyone perceived to be \u201cZionist.\u201dA new report from Columbia University, for example, found that during the last academic year, Jewish students at that institution were pinned to the wall, had jewelry ripped off and were spat on and called hateful antisemitic slurs. These are clear civil rights violations that must not be left unaddressed.Of course, we strongly support the right of students to have and express political views on campus, and we agree with Mr. Roth that this is part of a long tradition of students exercising their right to free speech and dissent as part of the college experience.But is speech truly free if one portion of the student body adamantly refuses to listen, and another is feeling harassed and intimidated to the point where they must hide their identity to achieve even a modicum of safety on campus? I would submit that the answer is clearly \u201cno.\u201dJonathan A. GreenblattNew YorkThe writer is the C.E.O. and national director of the Anti-Defamation League.To the Editor:\u201cForeigners Find Adoption Door Shut in China\u201d (front page, Sept. 7) accurately captured China\u2019s decision to end intercountry adoption, but the article didn\u2019t focus on the most pertinent question: What will happen to the children?You note that domestic adoption in China has increased \u2014 and that\u2019s true \u2014 but it\u2019s a specious line of reasoning. Many of your readers will conclude that these children will be adopted in China instead of the U.S., but China\u2019s domestic adoptions have not involved older children or children with special needs, who are the only children being placed internationally. The reality is that there is no plan for those children to have a family, in China or elsewhere.I have a son, born in China and adopted at age 1\u00bd. At the same time I learned of China\u2019s announcement to end adoptions, my wife was driving him back from an out-of-state children\u2019s hospital. He goes a few times a year to receive world-class medical care regarding a congenital medical condition.Your article says this is the end of a complicated chapter, but I don\u2019t think that\u2019s the right way to look at this. For these children, it\u2019s the continuation of the same chapter \u2014 a childhood without parents, without family.Ryan HanlonAlexandria, Va.The writer is president of the National Council for Adoption.To the Editor:Donald Trump had four years to \u201cfix\u201d the border, four years to \u201cfix\u201d health care, four years to \u201cfix\u201d infrastructure, four years to \u201cfix\u201d domestic manufacturing, four years to \u201cfix\u201d whatever he thought wasn\u2019t great about America.If he gets four more years, we will all be in quite a fix.Michelle BravermanHoustonTo the Editor:In \u201cQuiz: Do You Have Healthy Brain Habits?\u201d (Well, nytimes.com, Sept. 3), an important factor was missing: hearing loss.Hearing loss is the largest modifiable risk factor for cognitive decline. In fact, when left untreated, a mild hearing loss nearly doubles the risk of developing dementia, and as the hearing loss increases, so does this risk.Seeking a hearing test is a healthy brain habit we recommend \u2014 starting today.Laurie HaninNew YorkThe writer is executive director of the Center for Hearing and Communication.<\/p>\n

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